Saturday, November 2, 2013

Day # 2 - 30 Days of Thankful

So those of you who know me know how much I love coffee, especially Starbucks! Those of you who know me (all none of you who read this blog) also know how much I love Christmas. I always have and I always will. Although this year I have taken it to a new extreme and did my Christmas decorating before Halloween much to the dismay of our neighbors I'm sure. Anyways, today I squealed with delight when I ordered my Pumpkin Spice Latte (another one of my favorite things) and it arrived in a red Starbucks Holiday cup! The first of the season! I don't know why these little cups bring me so much joy, but every year I look forward to them and every year I get so excited when I get my latte served up in one of these beauties. Maybe its the excitement of seeing the year's chosen design, or maybe its the synergy of two of my favorite things coming together, but these little cups make me truly, deliriously happy! More and more I find that it is the little things that bring me joy, so today I am thankful for the little red cup that made my day. 

Here are a few of my other favorite things: 
- The color purple
- Dresses with pockets 
- Seeing holiday decorations suddenly pop up in stores 
- Jessica Simpson (yes really) 
- Gaining an extra hour of sleep tonight 

Here is hoping that everyone has a restful night and a joyous weekend. 

- Carleigh 

Friday, November 1, 2013

30 Days of Thankful




In an effort to try once again to start blogging (damn law school), I am going to try to commit to something small. I am joining the 30 Days of Thankful for the month of November, and am going to try to post at least one thing that I am thankful for for the next 30 days. 

Day # 1 

I am thankful for the people in my life who may not have started out as family, but have grown to mean that much to me (and hopefully I to them). I wasn't given a biological family that I can count on, but in one way or another have come to be surrounded by some pretty amazing people. Some I don't see very often, and some I see almost every day, but they mean the world to me and I sure do love them!

P.S. This is what I have been up to since my last blog post six months ago!!!

- I kicked ass in summer school (voluntary by the way) and earned my first A in law school! 
- I completed my 1L writing requirement. 
- I passed the MPRE!
- I went to Disney World! 
- I visited one of my very best friends in Seattle. 
- I walked down the aisle with one of my other very best friends and watched as she married her soul mate. 
- I started my 2L year. 
- I started watching The Golden Girls. Love it!

I will try to start blogging more. I really want to, but I am lazy and can't think of much to say. I hope your first day of November has been beautiful. 

- Carleigh  

Monday, May 6, 2013

Reflections on the First Year...


 On Friday April 26, 2013 I completed my first year of law school! I would have written about it sooner, but it's taken me this long to recover. I have been sleeping in catching up on TV, and basking in this wonderful 80* weather Portland has been enjoying. Anyways, I start summer school next Monday so I figured I'd better get some blogging done before I am busy with school work again. I'm not the most consistent blogger if you haven't noticed, but the point of this blog was for me to document my law school journey so I figure better sporadic than never.

This last term some classmates and I carpooled in from Portland and one day on the way home from school we were discussing the upcoming class of 1Ls who were getting their acceptance letters and how just like us the previous year, they have no idea what they are getting themselves into. We talked about what advice we would give to the incoming class and this is what we came up with:

 1. Focus on you.

Everyone has different study habits and ways of coping with the stress. What works for one person may not work for you. Find a system that does work for you and stick to it.

2. You're not alone.

Everyone in the 1L class is new at this. No one knows what they are doing. Take what they say with a grain of salt when classmates proclaim that they have it all figured out already. Your professors, faculty, alumni, classmates, upperclassmen, and mentors really do want you to succeed and 99% of them are more than happy to help or simply talk. Take them up on that!

 3. You don't have to know everything right now.

It’s okay not to know what kind of law you want to practice going into law school, now, and even graduating from law school. In fact its better that you don’t stick too rigidly to being a medical malpractice attorney for instance because when you graduate and there isn’t a need for a medical malpractice attorney it’s good to be flexible. 

 4. If they've never been to law school they just don't understand.

No one in your life that is not currently in law school or been through law school will understand the immense load of pressure you are under or how much your life has changed. They don’t mean to be insensitive, even when they say things like “it can’t be that bad or “I went to grad school and I was never this busy.” Be patient with them. You do still want to maintain these relationships even though you don’t have time now.

5. You will get asked the same questions over and over again.

 Everyone in your life and everyone you meet will ask you two things: (1) What kind of law you want to practice? (See # 03) and (2) If you have any legal advice for how to deal with the neighbor’s barking dog, how to get out of a contract, etc. even though you have only been in law school for five minutes. Once again, be patient. They do mean well.

6. Take some time for you.

Your classes will end by noon on Friday (for most schools). Take the rest of the day off! Seriously do it! You need to and don't feel guilty about it at all.

7. Outline...

Develop an outlining system that works for you. Some professors will tell you to outline every weekend. Some will tell you to outline at the end of a topic. Others will tell you to outline during the last four weeks before finals, one outline a week, in reverse order of your finals so that the last outline that you do will be for your first exam and the material will be fresh in your mind. Everyone will swear their system is the best. Find the one that works best for you, but WRITE YOUR OWN OUTLINES! Notes that are not written by you may not make sense to you and if they don’t make sense what is the point?

8. Live a little.

Continue one completely non-law related activity that you enjoyed before law school to keep you sane. For me it was pub trivia and traveling, but I know others who exercise, sing, volunteer, etc.

9. Take advantage of breaks.

Breaks are few and far between and should be cherished. Sleep in, watch trashy TV, travel, and spend quality time with the people in your life who have been neglected. Those relationships are important and those people love you.

10. Be above the negativity.

 Avoid the negativity of other students, especially around test time. It will psych you out and it is of no benefit to you.  Also, remember that the legal community is small and that first impressions count for a lot. Do not get in the habit of badmouthing your professors, classmates, or other attorneys. And by the way your school monitors the Facebook page they created for you so if you do badmouth your professors that is not the place to do it.

11. Remember why you are there.

 When you come back for your second semester you will be bombarded with everyone telling you you must find a summer clerkship, externship, internship, volunteer opportunity, etc. While these are valuable, they will mean nothing if your grades are bad. Don’t spend so much time applying for these jobs that you neglect your graded classes. Don’t rob Peter to pay Paul.

12. Be kind.

 If you don’t get a position over the summer it is not the end of the world. It does not mean that you are not smart or capable. It’s just super competitive. There’s nothing wrong with taking the summer off to travel, or go to summer school, or to work in a non-legal capacity. Once again, take it with a grain of salt when fellow students brag about their summer positions. Be happy for them and realize that your turn is coming. If you do get a summer position be sensitive with your bragging.

13. Show up and use common sense.

 Go to every class, every day, and be prepared. Its a lot of work and can be mentally exhausting, but your professors were hired for a reason. Take what they have to say about the topic they are teaching as the very last word on that topic. As much as you may not agree with a professor's views on the topic, or life for that matter they are the ones who write and grade the exams so as unfortunate as it may be you might have to pander your exam responses to them. In other words if your Con Law professor is a flaming liberal and you are conservative, you may not agree with his beliefs but you may have  to pretend that you do on the exam. Professors are humans as well and although it sucks is it more important to make sure he knows you disagree with his point of view, or to get a good grade on the test? It's called paying your dues. Your professors had to do it and now you do too.

14. Don't wish it away.

I made this mistake during my first year and I really regret it. Don't spend so much time focusing on the stress that you forget to enjoy yourself. You wanted to be there and now you are there. Enjoy it. Even amidst all the stress the first year can still be fun.

15. Make friends.

On that note don't be so busy studying that you forget to interact with classmates and make friends. I also made this mistake during my first year.

16. Take what professors say with a grain of salt.

Your professors are all lawyers and lawyers love to talk about themselves. Sometimes too much! Once again what worked for them may not work for you. One of our professors told us to skip Thanksgiving dinner to study. OMG do not do that! Take Thanksgiving day completely off! Spend time with family. Seriously. 

17. Don't give up!

I came home from my first day of law school and cried my eyes out! Cry if you have to. Do whatever you have to do (within reason) to cope, but don't give up. It's damn hard, but you were smart enough to get into law school and you can make it. It will get better. It won't get easier, but you will adjust. When you think about giving up, think about why you started.

All in all I'd say that my first year of law school was a labor of love. There were times when I absolutely hated it, but for the most part even when I was stressed I really loved my first year. I don't know about other law schools, but I love Willamette! The class sizes are small, everyone knows everyone else by name including faculty and staff, the professors are amazing, and I really feel like they want me to succeed. For my 2L year I'd like to take some of my own advice and work on making more friends, and really appreciating my time there. After all I only have two more years left. For now I am going to enjoy the sun! Thanks for stopping by.

Sunday, February 24, 2013

Oscar Sunday!

Today is Oscar Sunday! It is my absolute favorite day of the year and I am taking the whole day off to enjoy it! I'm not even going to let myself feel guilty about it. When I had a job I requested the day off every year and everyone laughed at me... you all have your Super Bowl, but today is my day! Anyways, as I do every year I watched all the movies and I am going to share my Oscar predictions. 

Best Picture 

Amour 
Argo
Beasts of the Southern Wild
Les Miserables
Lincoln
Silver Linings Playbook
Zero Dark Thirty
Life of Pi
Django Unchained 

I think Argo is going to take it this year! The whole rest of the show will either all go to Les Mis or all go to Lincoln, but I think Argo is going to surprise us all. It was such an intense movie! The acting was great, and Ben Affleck is a wonderful director! To those of you who haven't seen it Argo F&%k Yourself! (Those of you who have seen Argo know what this means. If you don't go watch the film. I promise I'm not insulting you.)

Best Actor

Bradley Cooper Silver Linings Playbook
Daniel Day Lewis Lincoln 
Hugh Jackman Les Miserables
Joaquin Pheonix The Master
Denzel Washington Flight

This category makes me mad because I want Hugh Jackman to win so badly! Have you seen Le Mis? He totally deserves it... but it's going to go to Daniel Day Lewis. His portrayal of Abraham Lincoln was beyond amazing! He has got to be one of the greatest living actors of our time. I did not feel like I was watching a movie! I felt like I was watching Lincoln pass the 13th Amendment. It's a shame because this will be his third Oscar and Hugh has never won, but if you are in a category with Daniel Day Lewis you don't stand a chance. Denzel Washington was insane in Flight by the way! Do yourself a favor and see it. Why John Goodman wasn't nominated, I'll never know.

Best Supporting Actor

Alan Arkin Argo
Robert De Niro Silver Linings Playbook
Phillip Seymoure Hoffman The Master
Tommy Lee Jones Lincoln
Christoph Waltz Django Unchained 

Christoph Waltz is AMAZING! If he doesn't win I'll cry! If you can handle violence go see Djano Unchained if only for Christoph. By the way Leo should have been nominated as well...

Best Actress

Jessica Chastain Zero Dark Thirty
Jennifer Lawrence Silver Linings Playbook
Emmanuelle Riva Amour
Quvenzhane Wallis Beasts of the Southern Wild
Naomi Watts The Impossible

I couldn't care less about this category this year. Everyone's acting was great, but none of them really deserve an Oscar in my opinion, except Naomi Watts, but I'm sure it'll go to Jennifer Lawrence. I don't think she deserves it for this movie and I don't think she's paid her dues, but whatever. Jessica Chastain is the next big it girl by the way.

Best Supporting Actress

Amy Adams The Master
Sally Fields Lincoln
Anne Hathaway Le Miserables
Helen Hunt The Sessions
Jackie Weaver Silver Linings Playbook 

There are certain years where you just know that someone is going to win. It is their year... It is their night. Like in 2001 when you just knew Julia Roberts was going to win for Eric Brockovich, or 2010 when it was practically certain that Sandra Bullock was going to win for The Blind Side. This year is the year of Anne. She is going to take it for Le Miserables if only for I Dreamed a Dream. She... was... BRILLIANT!

Animated Feature

Brave
Frankenweenie
ParaNorman
The Pirates Band of Misfits
Wreck it Ralph

This is the first year that I have watched all the animated films and I really enjoyed them all. I hope ParaNorman wins because it was made in Portland, but I think it'll go to Frankenweenie. 

I also predict that Seth McFarland will suck as an Oscar host, that winners will talk way past the music, that Jessica Chastain will be one of the best dressed, Joaquin Pheonix will not shave, and Daniel Day Lewis will no doubt be in some awful velvet suit. Now I am off to party it up with Joan and Melissa for the red carpet pre-show, and then on to the main event! Happy Oscar day everyone! 

Seriously I will loose my s&*t if I see this on the red carpet!






Saturday, January 26, 2013

Reality...

It is only the end of January and already I have broken my New Year's Resolution to blog every week. That's the thing about New Year's Resolutions... You make them around the end of December when you are still riding the holidays wave, and you forget how busy you are the rest of the year. To be fair I have been really busy and not much in the way of new and exciting has been happening. Law school is in full swing. I'm not sure if it is because I am now used to the workload, or because the subjects are easier, or the professors are nicer, or whatever, but this semester feels a lot less stressful than the last one. Don't get me wrong. I am still CRAZY busy, but I don't feel panickey all the time, and sometimes I think maybe... just maybe... I might survive this and make it out of here with a JD. This semester I am also applying for jobs for over the summer. I need some legal experience and some money would be nice too. It's a little bit scary learning how to interview, and network, and write resumes and cover letters, and just the idea that I may actually have a job where I don't have to walk around wearing other people's food is blowing my mind. I feel like the little girl in the car commercial who's dad is warning her to be safe on the road, but really she is a grownup. I love that commercial! Anyways, I have a few interviews lined up so fingers crossed that I make a good impression. I promise to update this thing when something new and exciting comes along. Until then I'll just be taking it day by day.

I totally feel like her!

Friday, January 11, 2013

Law School Style...

In an effort to keep up my New Year's Resolution of blogging at least once a week, I give you some of the outfits that I have worn over the past few weeks. On our first day of law school, we got a lecture about how our presentation is part of our professional image. I try to dress nicely most of the time, but I also like to be comfy. Who doesn't? So this is what I wear when I rock the halls of that law school!

Sweater by Aries, Boots by Jessica Simpson, Scarf by Nordstroms, & Leggings
Thermal by Aries, Winter Vest and Jeans by The Gap, Boots by Jessica Simpson

Jeans by Citizens, Shoes by Guess, & Jacket by Desigual
...and jacket off, Sweater by DKNY
















Jeans by Citizens, Boots by Jessica Simpson, Scarf by Nordstroms, Leg Warmers by Sock World, & Shirt from Italy


Skirt & Shirt by Nordstroms, Shoes by Ivanka Trump, & Scarf from Misty!


Same old Vest and Shirt we've seen before, Undershirt by Nordstroms
Snowflake Sweater by Ann Taylor, Jeans by J Jeans, Vest by Gap, & Boots by Miz Mooz 
Sweater by Nordstoms, Flannel Undershirt from Italy, Boots by Miz Mooz, & Leggings

This post is probably cheating in terms of sticking to my resolution, but looking good is a huge confidence booster (at least for me), and what I've learned through this whole law school adventure so far is that somedays just getting up and getting dressed is a win. And it's all about the little wins isn't it? Thanks for reading!

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

A Much Needed Break & Happy New Year!

Happy New Year everyone! I have not posted in a while because after my last post it was time for finals and then it was Christmas break and I could not force myself to do anything academic, even adding a new blog post. Even now I find myself having a hard time staying focused on what I am writing, but school starts back up in a few days and I want to take some time to reflect on my much needed Christmas break. I used Christmas break to play catch up. I caught up on sleep...

and with friends and family. I took the train to Seattle to see one of my oldest and dearest friends in the whole world Markus. We had not seen each other in almost two years and it was time to rectify that.  
Markus and I at the original Starbucks at Pike's Market.
  Markus is just one of those people that I know will always be in my life. We met in college and have been friends ever since. Whenever we see each other it is like no time has passed and we pick up right where we left off. I also got a chance to catch up with my wonderful Kindred Spirit Sarah Wilson. 

Please disregard the weird dot on my forehead.
Sarah Wilson is another friend from college and she is my kindred spirit. She recently got engaged so it was fun to get together and discuss WEDDING PLANS!!! She is also one of my closest friends and I am so happy that I get to be a bridesmaid in her wedding and help her celebrate her big day! I also got the chance to catch up with my friend Jennifer and Travis and I got to spend the evening with Al, an old travel buddy of ours (sadly no pictures). Then it was off to Pittsburgh for Christmas with Travis's family. 

Just arrived in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania!

Travis's sister, brother-in-law, nieces, and nephew moved to Pittsburgh this summer and we thought it would be fun to fly in on Christmas Eve and surprise them, and boy were they surprised! Misty and Thomas knew we were coming of course, but you should have seen the look on the kid's faces when they saw us. Christmas in Pittsburgh was a blast! It snowed the day after Christmas and we had a great time sledding, throwing snowballs, and building snowmen. These are not things that we get to do very often in Portland.
Yeehaaa!

Misty and me...
And then there's this...

We also explored Downtown Pittsburgh, the Amish Country, and had a little fun with mustaches!
I am a beast!
World's Best Chai? Trav says no!

We no speak Americano!

We made another family dance video... Click Here!

I even ran into an old friend at JFK!



Christmas break was awesome and I'll be sad to see it go, but it's time to get back to work on my law degree. Last year my New Years Resolution was to get into law school, and I accomplished that. This year my New Years Resolution is to enjoy the journey and not focus so much on the destination. In 2 1/2 short years I will be a lawyer and I will look back on my time in law school as some of the best days of my life. Its hard work, but I know that someday it will pay off. My goal for 2013 is to update this blog at least once a week. I hope I can stick to it. Happy New Year!